Why like minded???

In todaz buzzing  world one gets hardly spare time to think of self.Party with friends and visiting relatives has become past days show.The friend list is not much crazy and all interaction is confined through  social media only.No doubt number of contacts and page views are huge but how many of them are close to our heart and soul.After  intensive introspection a phrase "LIKE MINDED"is striking me time and again.

Why we are interested in like minded people only ?
Why we make friends with attitudes similar to us?
Why  we wish to ignore unlike mind people?

The reply  vibrated to  my mind   that we like them becoz it is human nature to remain free and unopposed.moreover easy going things attract us.We all wish to lead life in a comfortable Zone.
But  we forget that challenges make us win ,then why in case of making relation with people we are choosy
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Life does not always introduce us the people who listen us positively and agree with our logics.But sometimes we are in touch with people whose ideas  are poles apart from us.But we should not hesitate to interact with them as they may prove more beneficial to us.As they can be our friends as they point out our errors and we may learn how to stand erect even in adverse situations.We learn to control our anger and learn patience.Though in the company of people unlike minded we may not be comfortable but we can learn the true and harsh reality of life.

Again I would like to say  that even my list of like minded friend is large but lets us take a challenge to make friends who possess attitudes opposite to ours so that we may learn more shades of life .Even we must accept challenge from them and show them that we have capability  to make you even like minded .Thus our list of friends will keep on increasing and life will be more beautiful.

Hope most of you will agree with me.(Like Minded)


Nisha    


  

wow------------missed connections

In todaz machinised  era life has become so busy that hardly we think about anything else than our chip like routine .actually we have turned out slaves and our mindset does not allow us to break the barriers of our self.Work pressure and household chores have occupied our memory and hardly we get space to recollect our sweet memories which are the foundation of our basic personality.

we have forgotten our childhood and those friends without whom the dat used to be dull and bore.Maximum hours we spend in the company of class mates and some of them are very close to our heart.I too had a very short list of my close friends like Jassie,Savita and Sunu.We four were a group of brilliant but naughty students.JASSIE was lively.beautiful and very humorous and none of the activities like picnic or tour could be carried out in her absence.actually she was our JAAn.But as earlier mentioned along with the passage of time we change our priorities and become selfish.

It was she who taught me patience,feeling of togetherness.She pointed out my mistakes and whenever we had any issues it was she who on very next day used to give me warm hug and everything used to be  normal.


Really i had missed this strong connection as I am not in touch with most important person .I really wish to appologise through this post that i could not visit her even when she missed her precious thing .......her elder son.So selfish i have become that I am so busy in chores of lfe that i forgot my beloved friend whose company had been blessing for me.

This post is a part of Write Over the Weekend, an initiative for Indian Bloggers by BlogAdda

nisha talwar  

First love activity with dabur...

Again so beautiful theme to write upon.It has taken me back to most precious moments of life when I first received natures soft and precious  gift.
The feelings while massaging your baby are amazing as we you  get emotional touch and feel  through it.Baby massage is parenting tradition in our Indian culture.Scientifically too baby massaging is highly recommended.It makes baby active,helps in growth of bones and muscles and development of motor skills.

Massaging has bountiful benefits.During body massage a verbal and non verbal communication between parent and child is developed and it becomes a wonderful experience for both.By giving strokes full of affection  a parent enjoys these  marvellous moments which relieve both kid and parents from stress.The wonderful actions of child thrill the parents and thus overall massaging strengthens the emotional bond between kid and parents.

Next begins the selection of oil for massaging .I have been keen for Dabur baby oil as word DABUR has somewhere occupied space in my memory card.Dabur being purely aurvedic was choice since my childhood --------whether it is honey or chaywanprash......all were Dabur only.Dabur baby oil is blend of olive oil and  almond oil (both ayurvadic ingredients.)Olive and almond have their own benefits.

OLIVE   -----it is a legend that Olive tree was free gift from Goddess Athenes to humanity.
olive oil is packed with important nutrients essential for healthy growth and development of a baby.
It contains vitamin E content.
It is natural and gentle and gives amazing effects on baby skin.and softens it.

Almond is equally good for soft skin of a baby.

It moisturizes dry skin of baby and makes it soft and shiny.
Baby skin especially cradle appears very unpleasant and by applying dabur oil containing almond flakes easily go away .
It stimulates blood circulation ,respiration and eases fatigue and pain.


Thus Dabur Oil has many fold benefits and it is perfect blend of both olive and almond oil.Moreover unlike other baby oils it is free from Paraffin which is harmful for the baby skin.
If  kids will grow strong and healthy then only the future of a nation will be strong so it is prime duty of parents to give our best for the growth of kids who are future of our country .Thus massaging is not only parent kid duo  relation but with Dabur Oil the strong foundation of a nation like India is  being erected.

“I am participating in the #FirstLove activity at BlogAdda in association withDabur“.

Nisha Talwar