motherhood .......the greatest pleasure

“I am sharing my #MemoriesOfMotherhood with Bio Oil and BlogAdda. This Mother’s Day check out the Yummy Mummy calendar and  make a similar calendar of your own using the Bio Oil App.”

A woman is complete only when she becomes a mother.Infact it is rightly said that God could not come on earth so He made mother.Even God had to take birth from mothers womb whenever he wanted to be on earth.Mother is divine,pure ,pious and full of love for her children and this affection is spontaneous irrespective of any adverse situation.
A new arrival in a family is welcomed by all but for  a mother,a new born is not less than an angel as it seems a miracle of god .Same was in my case when I took my elder son in my arms.A warm feeling casting  upon me.I used to be scary while holding him in my arms.watching him growing up was a wonderful experience in itself.There are many beautiful moments and infact a vast treasure of memories of childhood of my both sons stocked in my mind.
He never allowed us to listen songs on tape recorder rather would keep along with him all the time or would keep his arms rotating as if turning steering of car and literally asked for a car at the age of two.
He would continue to sit outside wash room till I came back and it was pitiable condition to find him standing like this.Even at the age of 26 he is so that he wont allow me get out of his sight.Actually he is very possessive and is scared of losing me.

My younger son was very fair and pretty  and like a rubber baby.In playway ,whenever he was a bit late he denied to stand in late comers queue by crying and settling only if he joined assembly.He was so happy when he got first prize for standing first in academics and this contd.
He was hardly two and half when on one morning  i made him ready for school,that all of a sudden on listening echo of cuckoo he immediately said oh listen .....do u hear the sound of Dhruv dhruv (his name being Dhruv)lagta hai mausie from Delhi is calling me.All of us were astonished to check his presence of mind.

I am really thankful to Bio OIl App for again me taking back to the tracks of memories which are so beautiful and i feel rejuvenated.He is favourite among female class fellows and many wont hesitate l even share with me that he is their hero and true friend.

I am deeply and strongly bonded with my sons as if they are stars of my two eyes,Both are attached with me and would share their day long experiences with me.Every mother prays for long life,success and well being of her children .I pray that children should also understand the feelings of their mother and should never forget her sacrifice. 
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how share of load leads to happy houshold

A load is very easy to be shifted with the use of both shoulders as load on single shoulder may toss and equilibrium may get imbalanced.You must have heard the story  with moral union is strength in which farmer shows his sons how difficult it is to break the bundle of sticks together .Similar is the case of household..............if load of household chores is shared it will lead to productivity,happiness and feeling of commitment.Even the natural scale of justice shows both sides of scale balanced if they carry equal load.

Sharing of load is key mantra of a successful married life.In married  life support system  to each other keeps the household knitted together.Husband and wife are two strong pillars of family.Actually both are wheels of  chariot named household,If load is distributed equally on both wheels then only this chariot will run smoothly even on uneven ways of life.

Here I am not going  to give tips on how to share load n all ..............but surprisingly I am going to narrate my own experience of sharing load and its beautiful results.My whole life is work out of support system which has been spontaneously being provided by my loving husband.

I joined job in bank when my younger son was hardly two months old and elder one was five.
My first place of posting was hundred miles away from my house .I had to leave at 7 am and was back at 6 pm.My husband was only mother for little one .from feeding to bathing,changing nappy and all.Even he used to send elder one for school and all household chores during my absence.He used to drop me and pick me so as to save time and that time on two wheeler brought us more nearer.

To add to our sufferings ,our maid left for her native village and no other was available for washing clothes and dishes. We both shared our work he used to wash dishes whereas I used to cook for family.Even he used to share washing and in this way we used to spend much of time together even during busy schedules.When you both work together taking it as your responsibility the day long stress is swept away any it is not carried upon children. During those hours a lot of planning for future used to take place.Even on travel the whole packing unpacking job was attributed to my better half.

After a few years during my thirties there was a shocking blow upon me when I was diagnosed RH arthritis and I used to cry with pain and I was under depression that how I will manage my household and family.Again my husband stood as rocking support to me and shared all my responsibilities without making any complaint and even till date I am living happily alongwith arthritis .

Thus mine mantra of sucessful and happy life is that I never picked the load alone but there were always two more hands to share the load which kept us close to each other.Every day was a refreshing day.So I can assure the that essence of happiness  and appreciation lies in balanced,happy and peaceful household.Happy parents make happy family and happy family leads to better and balanced citizens.  

“I am writing for the #ShareTheLoad activity at BlogAdda.com in association withAriel.”
Thanks to Ariel which has given me an opportunity to express that how share of load between better halves can  make them better halves.The sharing of load gives them space,appreciation,commitment for each other and creats sense of sharing social responsibilites among children of such parents.So share the load and enjoy for all!!!!!!!!!!


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Nisha