A load is very easy to be shifted with the use of both shoulders as load on single shoulder may toss and equilibrium may get imbalanced.You must have heard the story with moral union is strength in which farmer shows his sons how difficult it is to break the bundle of sticks together .Similar is the case of household..............if load of household chores is shared it will lead to productivity,happiness and feeling of commitment.Even the natural scale of justice shows both sides of scale balanced if they carry equal load.
Sharing of load is key mantra of a successful married life.In married life support system to each other keeps the household knitted together.Husband and wife are two strong pillars of family.Actually both are wheels of chariot named household,If load is distributed equally on both wheels then only this chariot will run smoothly even on uneven ways of life.
Here I am not going to give tips on how to share load n all ..............but surprisingly I am going to narrate my own experience of sharing load and its beautiful results.My whole life is work out of support system which has been spontaneously being provided by my loving husband.
I joined job in bank when my younger son was hardly two months old and elder one was five.
My first place of posting was hundred miles away from my house .I had to leave at 7 am and was back at 6 pm.My husband was only mother for little one .from feeding to bathing,changing nappy and all.Even he used to send elder one for school and all household chores during my absence.He used to drop me and pick me so as to save time and that time on two wheeler brought us more nearer.
To add to our sufferings ,our maid left for her native village and no other was available for washing clothes and dishes. We both shared our work he used to wash dishes whereas I used to cook for family.Even he used to share washing and in this way we used to spend much of time together even during busy schedules.When you both work together taking it as your responsibility the day long stress is swept away any it is not carried upon children. During those hours a lot of planning for future used to take place.Even on travel the whole packing unpacking job was attributed to my better half.
After a few years during my thirties there was a shocking blow upon me when I was diagnosed RH arthritis and I used to cry with pain and I was under depression that how I will manage my household and family.Again my husband stood as rocking support to me and shared all my responsibilities without making any complaint and even till date I am living happily alongwith arthritis .
Thus mine mantra of sucessful and happy life is that I never picked the load alone but there were always two more hands to share the load which kept us close to each other.Every day was a refreshing day.So I can assure the that essence of happiness and appreciation lies in balanced,happy and peaceful household.Happy parents make happy family and happy family leads to better and balanced citizens.
“I am writing for the #ShareTheLoad activity at BlogAdda.com in association withAriel.”
Thanks to Ariel which has given me an opportunity to express that how share of load between better halves can make them better halves.The sharing of load gives them space,appreciation,commitment for each other and creats sense of sharing social responsibilites among children of such parents.So share the load and enjoy for all!!!!!!!!!!
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